I turn difficult, painful, empty circumstances into loving enjoyable marriage and family relationships using my unique brain-based heart level approach.
Your marriage and family relationships can be enjoyable and easier. They can be a source of connection, communication and compassion. Let me help you take the next right step away from the loneliness, hurt, anger, fear, conflict, indifference and unfaithfulness that is characteristic of so many relationships today.
As a relationship coach and registered psychotherapist, I have led 500+ couples in 15-hour marriage intensives and provided 20,000 hours of ongoing support and stand-alone sessions. My clientele has included professional athletes (NFL, MLB, Olympic), high profile lawyers, psychologists, mega-church pastors, business leaders and the likes of you and your neighbor. And the results I see have been astounding. Affairs reconciled, divorces called off, renewal ceremonies performed, teens hearts turned back to their parents, forgiveness extended, communication restored and spouses who say they had a wedding but now they have a marriage.
I use a unique brain-based method of (re-)connecting spouses and family members so that you won't just have a renewed desire to change, you will have the power to do so! I am the creator of The Communication Cure (www.34Talks.com and www.MeaningfulTalk.com) an online resource that keeps you connected, talking and showing compassion to one another during and beyond our time of working together. All healthy relationships have healthy habits and I provide tools that are scientifically proven to establish such habits for lasting change.
My coaching experience profoundly affects the success of your coaching sessions! The sheer fact that I have practiced in my strengths for 27,500 hours means I have seen situations like yours 30, 40, 50 times and I am at the 'top of my game' ready to serve you. Though every client's needs and hopes are unique, my strengths, skills, knowledge and experience provide me the confidence to know I can help your relationships!
My resources and presentations have been well received by the US. Army, Air Force, county governments, churches and schools. I have been interviewed on national television, radio and magazine.
I have an office in Colorado Springs, CO. but deliver a large portion of my services online (via Zoom) using techniques for connecting clients with each other without the need of my physical presence. I am happy to travel to clients if necessary to provide the most effective support for their situation.
I have been married to Nancy for 23 years and the father of our six children. I am a Canadian now living as a US resident in Colorado. In Canada, I worked in children and adult mental hospitals. I am a registered psychotherapist in the state of Colorado and am an ordained minister with a Master of Theology degree. I will respectfully coach you from a faith or faith-neutral position based on your request.